Connections

The quality of your connections with other people will carry you further than you think. My husband and I have a created possibilities in our relationship that we are commited to and we tell each other that the possibilities that we are creating with each other is to be loving and connected. When we get into heated discussions and one or the other stops being that possibility, we will genty ask the other, “Are you being loving and connected in this moment?” Then, what usually happens is that we are not, and immediately revert to being loving and connected to finish the discussion. Sometimes, one of us says no and I don’t really feel like being that way right now, but usually, it’s the other way around. We don’t fight or argue all that often, and having created these possibilities is part of reason why.